In Memories of Clifton Lam Jia Hao...

I never knew the real meaning of the two words: Life's short. Till I lost a very very very special friend of mine, whom was one of the core reasons to why a smile's on my face every time I think back about the poly days...


The news threw me into a state of shock.
My heart wrenched. It was painful. So painful and so shocked that my heart bled instead of tears flowing down my cheeks. I wanted to cry out loud so badly and get someone to tell me this is all NOT true. But no.. I realised I wasn't in a dream... My heart felt so painful that I felt very numb.


Till I saw him again on the news. My shock turned half to reality and I broke down.
It's true. It's really true. He's never coming back. I was hoping so badly for 9th of August to come where I could see him and everyone else again.... But no. I'll never ever see him again...


He was such a nice guy, nice boyfriend, nice friend, nice to every one he knew.. How can this possibly happen?! Clifton why did you go........ Yilin's waiting so badly for your return... Your family's waiting for you... I'm waiting for my big 21st so we could all gather again... Why....... Someone tell me WHYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY!!!!!!!!
I haven't told you that I missed you...
I haven't told you that you are a very special friend...
I haven't told you that you are a very wonderful friend...
I haven't told you that you are a true gentleman...
I haven't told you that you are the sweetest boyfriend I've ever come across...
& I haven't told you that you will always be a brother to me....



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You will always be a part of Familyhoot.
This, WE promise you... We will always always love you.....



& You, will always be kept in a very special place in my heart and NEVER forgotten.
May you RIP my beloved friend & brother,
I love you.



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RSAF serviceman dies after collapsing during training
Posted: 12 June 2008 1649 hrs

Officer Cadet (OCT) Clifton Lam Jia Hao

SINGAPORE:

An airforce regular serviceman died, one-and-a-half hours after he collapsed while he was undergoing jungle orientation training in Brunei on Wednesday.

20-year-old Officer Cadet (OCT) Clifton Lam Jia Hao, a pilot trainee with the Republic of Singapore Air Force (RSAF), collapsedatabout 5:45pm.

OCT Lam was given immediate first aid treatment and was attended to by a doctor and a senior medic. He was evacuated by helicopter at 6:32pm to Ripas Hospital and arrived 10 minutes later. The doctor and senior medic continued to resuscitate OCT Lam en route to the hospital. OCT Lam was pronounced dead at 7:20pm in Ripas Hospital.

MINDEF and the SAF extend their deepest condolences to the family of the late OCT Lam. MINDEF will assist the family in their time of grief and is investigating the incident.

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& to the mother fuckers who shared their mother fucking insensitive and inhumane comments on the Channel News Asia online news website, this sweet boy over here may have got no relations with you at all. Nevertheless, it would be nice if the least you all can do is NOT to stereotype them and feel the pain of all his loved ones. Put yourselves in our shoes for a second before you comment anything like that.


Thank you best friend for backing all of us up by replying on the discussion board::

joanlovesyellow

Today, 11:38 PM

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While it is true that children nowadays are being overly pampered, there is a time and place for such opinions. Unless you know the deceased personally, it is unwise to group them together with the majority of today's youth. Please spare a thought for the friends and family of these two young men. They are the ones who have to read your comments and question their method of upbringing.

My deepest condolences to the families and friends of these two young men. Rest in peace, Clifton.