♥, *Rin

Its 1230am.

I was online surfing the internet, killing time when I started clicking on friends to chat with on msn..
Yan.. Dada.. Kerlin.. Andy Quekie..

It were all happy conversations except Andy's window.
He asked me if I knew about the latest big hoo hah news.


Andy says:
u heard of that girl who died in OG

Andy says:
big hoo hah

Andy says:
19 years old only

Andy says:
sad


That was when I came across another death... Accident through street racing on OG (Orchard Gudang) near esplanade.

Andy gave me her blog link. & to such coincidence, she is Alroy's wife's closest sister. She is a young pretty girl. Though to me, typical lian-ish, but I read around, & gathered that she was a really fine pretty girl. From Anderson Secondary.
She has a boyfriend, unfortunately, the driver wasn't him.
The driver was a 20years old young typical beng-ish looking kid driving a white eg6 with black bonnet. Apparently, he seems to have given false statement - driving at speed limit 60km/hr blah. On top of that, he doesn't appear to be remorseful or guilty.


Her friends had headed down to the site and has seen the very long skid marks. It was said that the car skidded and spun few rounds before it hit the lamppost & signboard where Jerlyn, the deceased was hit and fell into coma immediately and was pronounced dead after 7 hours of operation due to excessive lost of blood & rejection of blood when doctors tried to pump blood into her.
Family, friends, & boyfriend especially is devastated and helpless when he can only wait till bookout on weekends to go to her room.


Hmm.. at this point in time, I really do not know what else to say.

I do not know the deceased personally, but I truly offer my heartfelt condolences to the decease's family.

I may not know the exact pain that her close sisters, family & relatives are going through right now but I can somehow feel them - for one of good friend cum brother's departure 52 days ago has already made me experience an excruciating level of pain that no words and no amount of tears shed can be described. Thus, I'm really, really sorry.


Extracted out from one of her bestest friend's blog, a message that she would like to bring across to every drivers out there:-

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To all the drivers out there, please drive carefully.. please don't speed. On the road, if you wanna compete with other cars, please think twice. Don't start speeding and racing just because you wanna show the competitors how fast your car is. Life is really precious yet fragile. You're not cat. You don't have 9 lifes. Once gone, it's gone forever. That's it.

Please take care of your passenger's safety too. You're responsible for their lives..

I used to want my boyfriend to speed on the road, to compete with others who seems to wanna race or show off. I thought it was fun and thrilling. But my boyfriend was a responsible guy. He don't do. Just once or twice. I always complained why didn't he speed when his with me but he speed when his alone or with friends. Now I know, he was ensuring my safety.. I was so foolish then..

Now things happened, It taught us a lesson. It ain't fun and it's dangerous. Risking your life for nothing. Yes you speed and you won other cars, you're faster than them. So what? What did you gained in the end of the day? Glory? What glory? Fame? What fame? If anything happens to you, who is going to answer to all the people who loves and care about you?

Guys, please think twice.. Speeding Kills. It really kills.. it killed my very best friend.. my one and only bestest friend.. best sister..

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Life is short.

You really do not know what the next minute or second may bring.

Thereby, I plead everyone who reads my blog, to please please please treasure & cherish every single one whom you love or care for, for you never never know when is the last time you're seeing or talking to him/her.

It's pointless to regret after losing. It's pointless to repent after losing. Every one only lives once.
Don't live any time of your life in guilt or regret.

Don't ever let yourself have the opportunity to tell yourself, "It's too late."
For I've had it personally.
I've regretted many many many things when I lost him... It is a painful lifelong lesson that will follow me for the rest of my life.

Very blessed if you have not experienced, let our experiences, be your lesson learnt.

For those who would like to know more,
this is the deceased, Jerlyn's blog: http://kissonmylips.blogspot.com/

& her very best friend's: http://caiweii.blogspot.com/